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Now, that being said, I have many times tuned into people that were already reincarnated, and they definitely “feel” differently to me! I can get some info, like what they were like in this lifetime, etc., but it’s still not the same as the ones who appear to still be in Spirit.

Just to complicate matters, apparently all time is concurrent in all the other dimensions; only we have a linear view of time. Therefore, the other way to look at this is that there isn’t a Here and a There, meaning a time line of lives so that one is here today, in Spirit tomorrow and in the next life on Monday - but all are existing in the same moment, so if I tune in to the deceased one, it’s the same as tuning in to the live one! This also makes sense to me, because I literally can’t tell if someone is alive or dead most of the time; they feel exactly the same. Well, if that Soul is just always alive, and just living in different dimensions, then it WOULD feel the same to me, right? Which could also be why it seems like they’re dead, but already reincarnated, but able to be “read” by a psychic. And of course, when I read people’s past lives, I just see them as so many movies, one right after the other, and one influencing the other. Indeed, everything seems to indicate that what you do in one lifetime, say right now, has a direct effect on your other lives. Well, that would really make the most sense it they were concurrent.

I’ve also regressed to another lifetime that I could tell was concurrent with this one - it was pretty amazing, actually! I was with my teacher in this lifetime, Bob, and he regressed me in a meditation to a lifetime in Egypt. Well, in that very moment in the Egyptian lifetime, my husband was putting me into a meditation. I was a Priestess in the Temple, and the husband was a Priest, and that husband in that lifetime was Bob from this lifetime! Right in that very moment, where I was lying on a bed in Salem, Mass. with Bob at my side monitoring the meditation, the husband who was Bob’s soul in that lifetime was monitoring the meditation of the Egyptian me lying on a bed in Egypt! Meannwhile, that woman came thru to Bob in this lifetime, in the room in Massachusetts, and started speaking in Egyptian to him! And apparently I went and spoke English to the husband! Well, it got crazier and crazier, as Bob tried to get the woman to speak English, etc., and meanwhile, a third part of my consciousness was aware of everything that was going on! Talk about an amazing thing! But it’s always proven to me the concurrent lifetime theory.

Well, that’s about the best I can do - I think it’s all about as clear as mud! Apparently our little brains can’t really grasp the whole reality of it all, though, which is why there are so many religious and spiritual opinions on these matters.

I wanted to tell you about a fascinating topic I have recently explored with a client/friend of mine, Wayne Nicholson. It’s called Reverse Speech, and it’s the art and science of finding the hidden messages from our unconscious mind in our spoken words. You can check it out on his website at www.thehiddenlanguage.com.

Wayne and I did a few sessions so that I could try to get some insight on personal matters, as well as my Mediumship.  What came out was fascinating, funny and weird, but definitely enlightening. I found that by and large, my  subconscious self and conscious self are  “in agreement”, which was very comforting!  In other words, my  opinions and beliefs about myself are the same  both consciously and unconsciously, so I’m not just kidding myself into thinking I’m psychic, or whatever.  Or if  I am, I’m kidding myself all the way through to the core - LOL!

We came up with lots of interesting stuff, but Wayne was intrigued by this story, which I had completely forgotten about - this happened to me nearly 30 years ago! But my subconscious self knew this was a key bit of information to give me in answer to my questions. Here is Wayne’s write-up:

Identifying and documenting speech reversals can be a very subjective experience, which is why we have such strict protocols. Some reversals, even when they meet all the requirements, and are clearly heard, can be inexplicable to the investigator. One example of this occurred during a session with internationally known Psychic Medium, Debra Crossman. Debbie was taking advantage of reverse speech in order to better understand her own internal process and psychic communication.

A portion of that conversation follows:

Forward: Its my higher self and your higher self. Are these really all separate beings like John and Dick and Harry standing over there? Or are they aspects of us, or what? I wanna know who they are really, because many times, especially in the old days, when I was doing trance channeling, its just seemed as if it was all me.

Reverse: Dead boy in a church

While this reversal was quite clear to me, I couldn’t imagine what it meant, and was a little nervous about playing it back to Debbie. What if it meant nothing to her? On the afternoon of our follow-up session, we listened to her reversals together and discussed their meanings, and possible ways she could use them to enhance her life. I took a breath when we came to the “dead boy” and said, “Debbie, I’m not quite sure what this is, but I can say that the reversal is definitely there.”

She listened and laughed saying, “Oh my God, I know exactly what that is.”

During her training as a Medium at the Spiritualist Church in Quincy, Massachusetts, Debbie stood before a congregation for the very first time, and was expected to give messages from the other side. While she spoke she noticed a boy standing in the doorway who was “obviously looking for someone.” In an effort to help, she asked the congregation if anyone knew the boy standing at the door.

No one else could see the boy! When she described him, it became apparent that he was the deceased son of a visiting Medium who sat directly behind Debbie - out of the line of vision of the boy who was looking for her.

So the clearly spoken reversal that had no meaning to me, had profound meaning for Debbie. It reminded her that she was indeed speaking to individuals who have crossed over, and not her own imagination.