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		<title>Everyone is Channeling According to Abraham!</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Many consider Abraham, as channeled by Esther Hicks, to be the &#8220;Grandfather&#8221; of the modern Law of Attraction movement. Here&#8217;s a wonderful quote from an old seminar: All of you have inspiration that flows through you, all of you. You &#8230; <a href="http://debrajcrossmanpsychicmedium.com/blog/2012/04/18/everyone-is-channeling-according-to-abraham/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Many consider Abraham, as channeled by Esther Hicks, to be the &#8220;Grandfather&#8221; of the modern Law of Attraction movement. Here&#8217;s a wonderful quote from an old seminar:</p>
<p><em>All of you have inspiration that flows through you, all of you. You are channeling, if you will, impulses or intentions from Broader Perspective all of the time. The majority of your physical bodily movements are about that. In other words, the function of your body, the communication between your organs, even your balance, the way you move about, the way your eyes move about, the information that comes to you. There is so much potential information in any moment in time, and yet, you are often guided right to the piece of information you need. </em></p>
<p><em> You&#8217;re walking down a busy sidewalk and you look right at the only marble that you could have tripped over. Or…or, you&#8217;re driving down the freeway with hundreds, maybe thousands of billboards and signs, and you focus on none of them except the one that is meaningful to you. In other words, there&#8217;s all kinds of communication that is happening. You are so much more guided, and so much more cared for, and so much more in the awareness of Source than any of you give yourselves credit. </em></p>
<p>Boulder, Co, 12 June, 2004</p>
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		<title>Intuition vs. Law of Attraction &#8211; which comes first?</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[I recently received this letter from a long-time client and thought I&#8217;d share it, it&#8217;s a great question! Hi Debbie, I just wanted to ask you a quick question&#8211;the last time we met a few months ago, you suggested i &#8230; <a href="http://debrajcrossmanpsychicmedium.com/blog/2012/04/15/intuition-vs-law-of-attraction-which-comes-first/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>I recently received this letter from a long-time client and thought I&#8217;d share it, it&#8217;s a great question!<br />
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<p><em>Hi Debbie,</em><br />
<em>I just wanted to ask you a quick question&#8211;the last time we met a few months ago, you suggested i read &#8216;the laws of attraction&#8217;.  Well i am reading that as well as &#8216;ask and it is given&#8217;.  The first has left me with more questions that answers.  I understand about &#8216;birds of a feather&#8217;, &#8216;like attracts&#8217;, and self fulfilling prophecy, which I guess related to attraction.  But if you could answer where a &#8216;sixth sense&#8217; or &#8216;gut feeling&#8217; fits in to the law of attraction that would be helpful.  while I can sit here and only focus on what I want and good feelings, believing and then manifesting, please tell me where the sixth sense comes in&#8230;specifically, if i have a feeling/sensation that contradicts something, what do I do with that?  Does one ignore their sixth sense or intuition?  A dumb example, but what if I bought a plane ticket to go somewhere on vacation and, the day of the trip, a huge feeling to not get on the plane came over me at the airport?  Would you ignore that feeling/intuition and think good and positive thoughts, or would you listen to your inner voice?  It seems these things contradict each other.  What&#8217;s first in the hierarchy of &#8216;laws&#8217;?</em><em> I&#8217;ve pondered this but can&#8217;t figure it out&#8230;just wanted to pick your brain.</em><br />
<em>L.C.</em></p>
<p>That&#8217;s a good question, I had to think about it! The core of the Law of Attraction is that whatever you&#8217;re focused on, you&#8217;ll get. Let&#8217;s say your overall focus, then, is positive thoughts for your own well-being. Then, you buy the ticket and get the intuitive feeling not to go &#8211; I&#8217;d say that&#8217;s in perfect alignment with your focus of well-being. I would also say that 99% of the time we want to pay attention to our intuition, but for many people, it&#8217;s hard to differentiate that from just fear, or &#8220;what has always happened&#8221;, etc.</p>
<p>So it would have to depend on your general vibration &#8211; if you&#8217;re one of those positive, optimistic, spiritual people (which I know you are!) then using the LOA as well as trusting your overwhelming intuition would be a great combination of energy. Because the intuition, although seeming to be negative (don&#8217;t go!) would actually be positive, saying &#8220;since you are loving and respecting of yourself and your safety, and you intended to go on vacation for a good time, this isn&#8217;t your best choice right now&#8221;.</p>
<p>You could have a similar &#8220;hunch&#8221; just going out to dinner &#8211; fully focused on having a good time and great food, and assuming you&#8217;d order the famous chicken dish, but once inside looking at the menu, you are more strongly drawn to the fish, and go with that. We don&#8217;t stop to think that it might be a warning against the chicken, just that the fish is a better choice for you on that day at that time.</p>
<p>A normal, run of the mill person off the street who has no clue that they are manifesting things with their thoughts and feelings, would be less likely to notice a true intuition, but if they did, it would likely fit their vibration as well &#8211; in other words, focused most of the time on negative, the intuition would also likely be negative. (Don&#8217;t go!) In fact, if they are truly in a victim mode, or not self-loving or even self-destructive at that time, they might be the ones that don&#8217;t feel any reason not to go, and end up with some sort of problem with the trip.</p>
<p>Have faith that you are continuing to build a &#8220;grid&#8221; of positive, self-loving vibrations that will put you in alignment with (or attract) only those things that are what you desire and intend for your own happiness. In other words, don&#8217;t go looking for trouble! LOL! If you start to doubt, or fear, or dismiss the positives and starting focusing on the negatives &#8211; well, that&#8217;s what you&#8217;ll get!</p>
<p>Great question, as always!</p>
<p><strong>Debbie</strong></p>
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		<title>Must We Meet in Person for a Psychic Reading?</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[I received a request for a reading from a client I read in person years ago, and he commented that now it would have to be by phone or Skype as he lives quite far away. He worried, though, about &#8230; <a href="http://debrajcrossmanpsychicmedium.com/blog/2012/03/24/must-we-meet-in-person-for-a-psychic-reading/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I received a request for a reading from a client I read in person years ago, and he commented that now it would have to be by phone or Skype as he lives quite far away. He worried, though, about the fact that at that time I touched his hands when I started the reading. Here&#8217;s his letter and my response:</p>
<blockquote><p>&#8220;Is Skype better than over the phone?  I&#8217;m can&#8217;t stop thinking about how you touched my hand to get the connection last time and wondering how you do it from a distance.&#8221;</p></blockquote>
<p><em>After all these years (over 30!) I&#8217;ve learned to trust the Guides and know that  my readings are equally good in person, by phone, live chat, Skype, over the radio, or even by mail or email. Our Guides and loved ones on the other side have a completely different, (and inexplicable to us) relationship with the 3rd dimensional world, and therefore have no problem traveling or communicating with us through whatever means! That&#8217;s why sometimes they&#8217;re in our dreams, or if possible, they&#8217;ll manipulate energy to flicker the lights or turn on the radio or move things, for example.</p>
<p>When I would hold or touch my client&#8217;s hands, and in the beginning I held them throughout the entire reading, it was for MY sense of comfort and connection, and to maintain my focus. I always say a quick prayer in my head when I take someone&#8217;s hands, too, but I do that anyway, even when I don&#8217;t touch them.</p>
<p>In time, tho, it just became a habit to let me know that I was ready and &#8220;tuned in&#8221;, since I also trained myself to turn it off and on, so I wasn&#8217;t constantly reading people and picking up on things during my daily life. But because I started pretty quickly (back in the 80&#8242;s) to do long distance readings, I knew that touching the client, or even speaking with them, wasn&#8217;t necessary. I used to do readings by mail, where the client sent their questions and I would send a cassette taped reading. I often never met or laid eyes on that client, much like today with people all over the world. At least nowadays with Skype we get to see each other, or at least a picture! (My Skype readings are audio only, tho, as there&#8217;s really no need to watch each other on video and I find it distracting.)</p>
<p>So don&#8217;t worry, be able to physically touch you will not affect the reading!</em></p>
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		<title>Law of Attraction is a Great Help!</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[I got this beautiful letter of confirmation and testimony today, I thought I&#8217;d share it: Good afternoon, My name is S. I was lucky enough to meet with you in August of 2011 with a few of my girlfriends. I &#8230; <a href="http://debrajcrossmanpsychicmedium.com/blog/2012/02/09/law-of-attraction-is-a-great-help/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I got this beautiful letter of confirmation and testimony today, I thought I&#8217;d share it:</p>
<p>Good afternoon,</p>
<p>My name is S.  I was lucky enough to meet with you in August of 2011 with a few of my girlfriends. I was inspired by your profound talent and connectedness to the Universe that day.  The moment I got into my car that evening, I listened to your complimentary CD and have listened to it almost daily thereafter.  Everything that we discussed that evening has manifested in my life!  One thing in particular that you mentioned was that this point in my life is about transition.  You further explained that it would be one that would not be easy but I could get through it and that even though I had been through hardship before, this time seemed more pivotal than the others.  You are so right!</p>
<p>In September a back injury that I had in February 2011, reoccurred and then occurred again in late November.  The November episode brought me to my knees in every sense of the word.  I&#8217;ve been out of work since the middle of December and am having back surgery tomorrow to hopefully correct the issue.  The very same time I started dealing with the most recent episode with my back, our 11 year old Great Dane stopped eating&#8230;we found that he had a cancerous stomach tumor&#8230;We had to put him down this past Saturday.  He taught me about loyalty and the essence of unconditional love.  I know he&#8217;s no longer in pain and I believe, in true Morpheus fashion, he was rallying for me because he saw that I was sick and needed him. I&#8217;m at peace but completely heartbroken.</p>
<p>These past few months have been extremely trying but I do feel like 2012 has some very positive things to offer me.  Because I am lying down most of the day, it has given me the opportunity to reconnect with myself and learn.  I&#8217;ve re-read The Secret for the 4th time and like all the other times, have learned some things.  I am concentrating completely on asking, believing and receiving.  I am grateful for this time, even though I am injured.  I was able to spend the last days of my dog&#8217;s life with him all day every day and have connected with my family and my husband on an even deeper level than I ever thought possible.  I am so grateful for these gifts.</p>
<p>I think you have an amazing gift and I am grateful for the information you provided me in August.  I believe it has eased this tumultuous transition in my life.  Great things are coming to me.  I know it!</p>
<p>What is the best way to schedule some time to speak again?  I would really like to bring my Mom in the Spring/early Summer and also touch base myself.</p>
<p>My hope is that you read this and feel a confirmation in your gifts and talents.  Please continue what you do and know that you are truly appreciated. Thank you!</p>
<p>With warmest gratitude,<br />
S.</p>
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		<title>Does Law of Attraction Help My Spirit Guides?</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[I received this letter today &#8211; I thought is was a great question, and here&#8217;s my answer! Hi Deb, I had 2 sessions with you last year. One was a reading, and one was a session about Law of Attraction. &#8230; <a href="http://debrajcrossmanpsychicmedium.com/blog/2012/02/03/does-law-of-attraction-help-my-spirit-guides/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>I received this letter today &#8211; I thought is was a great question, and here&#8217;s my answer!</strong><br />
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Hi Deb,</p>
<p>I had 2 sessions with you last year. One was a reading, and one was a session about Law of Attraction. As we had discussed, I now realize that I have been on a journey for a long time to realize what the metaphysical world is all about. I do believe in the power of the Universe and our thoughts. I also know that we have guides and I have seen examples of that. However, I am confused and sad about the fact that I have asked my guides for a blue feather, just for validation. It&#8217;s been a month or longer, and no blue feather&#8230; Why do you think that my guides won&#8217;t produce it?? Since I do believe they are with me, it makes me sad that they won&#8217;t. I&#8217;m not frustrated, just sad and confused. Can you shed any light on why it is that they won&#8217;t show this to me?? I just don&#8217;t understand why they won&#8217;t. I hope you can explain it. Thank you so much for your help!! J.</p>
<p>Dear J.</p>
<p>Well, it&#8217;s my guess that once again the Law of Attraction is working &#8211; that is,<strong> what you focus on you get more of</strong>. So you&#8217;re focused, now, on NOT having received the feather, and you&#8217;re focused on the feeling of sadness (which is also a judgment with many layers of emotion beneath it), so unfortunately, what LOA is bringing you is <strong>more</strong> NO FEATHER and <strong>more</strong> SADNESS, as that&#8217;s what you&#8217;re asking for by your focus upon them. Law of Attraction doesn&#8217;t judge, it just matches your vibration.</p>
<p>You &#8216;d be much wiser to focus on gratitude for what you have received &#8211; more understanding, better balance, greater wisdom, serenity of thought, etc. Or, just focus on what you have right this minute &#8211; good health, nice clothes, a hot cup of tea, a great car, nice friends, good job, a great computer that&#8217;s connected and working, lots of guides bringing you answers just like this one!</p>
<p>By making gratitude your focus, or just focusing on the positive aspects in the moment, you will change your vibration so that the feather can show up, at which point it will just be one more thing you&#8217;re noticing and thankful for!</p>
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		<title>Your Feelings Are Driving the Law of Attraction!</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[A client of mine recently sent me this note, and here&#8217;s my answer: Re: my reading, I&#8217;ve had several phone calls, two in-person interviews and one phone interview since I saw you. I actually do still want to change jobs, &#8230; <a href="http://debrajcrossmanpsychicmedium.com/blog/2011/11/10/your-feelings-are-driving-the-law-of-attraction/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>A client of mine recently sent me this note, and here&#8217;s my answer:<br />
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<blockquote><p>Re: my reading, I&#8217;ve had several phone calls, two in-person interviews and one phone interview since I saw you. I actually do still want to change jobs, but with all of those it would be frying pan to the fire. You told me the change I would make in the job would activate other changes in my life, which I still want, but don&#8217;t want to jump to another job just for the sake of change, and wind up with less money and fewer benefits. You did say December though, and it is only November. I&#8217;m just frustrated, I guess.</p></blockquote>
<p>We&#8217;re all constantly changing our path, aren&#8217;t we? I mean, right up until now I thought I&#8217;d be having Thanksgiving either here with family, or down in NJ with family, and we&#8217;ve just found out that &#8220;family&#8221; is not going to be involved either way! So all the clients and invitations I&#8217;ve turned away for that Friday I could have done. I&#8217;m trying to figure out if there&#8217;s some other really good use of that time, as it seems the Universe (that is, Me) wants me to do something else! </p>
<p>So &#8211; if I had had a reading saying something about that weekend + family, it would have seemed like a given, but now it&#8217;s all different, not through anything I&#8217;ve done, either! But who knows? I think as long as you are comfortable with your choices, that is that you&#8217;ve chosen with self-respect (just as you said, not choosing for the wrong reasons) then the Universe will continue to match that vibration and bring you more opportunities. </p>
<p>It&#8217;s kind of like driving a car or a boat &#8211; we constantly, usually just automatically, are making minute or very small adjustments of the steering wheel to stay on course &#8211; a little swerve here, a sudden stop there, etc. We might even have to make a detour (I did just the other night &#8211; big accident on a major road so I backed up and went the whole long way around!) but we still reach our goal. So I think that&#8217;s what you&#8217;re doing&#8230;and yes, who&#8217;s to say what&#8217;s coming in December, thanks to your adjustments in course over the last month or so? Just keep on making conscious, well thought out decisions based on what you want, not on want you don&#8217;t want!</p>
<p>And your reading isn&#8217;t necessarily invalidated, it&#8217;s just that you may have now chosen, and activated, one of your alternate futures. For example, we could set up an appointment for tomorrow at 10, and then something happens to cancel that, and we go to an alternate path. Now, maybe the &#8220;not choosing&#8221; of the new job is really the way it was supposed to be, and the reading was picking up on a different future! It&#8217;s always hard to say. But no, I don&#8217;t think our decisions can invalidate anything, they just then become the vehicle to go in a certain direction. (I mean, look at the extreme example of people who get sex-change operations &#8211; they came in with the original future and vehicle and go to such extreme measures to change that! Was it truly meant that they were supposed to be the other sex? Or was it meant that they were supposed to go through all that drama? I don&#8217;t know, but boy, talk about changing your vehicle! LOL!)</p>
<p>On the other hand, if your reading was ultra-specific and said that working in that specific place (by name) was going to have a specific outcome, then it&#8217;s likely that you&#8217;ve truly invalidated that possibility, at least for now. (I once worked for a place twice, in 2 different decades! So there&#8217;s that&#8230;)</p>
<p>I&#8217;ll never forget the time that I was engaged to be married to the man I thought was my life partner and soulmate. I &#8220;saw&#8221; and &#8220;heard&#8221; psychically, with full visions, all the details of the wedding, the invitation, everything about it. Well, needless to say, it never happened. I would have laid money on it at the time, but &#8211; that future is apparently for another lifetime.</p>
<p>Don&#8217;t lose sight of your original goals and desires &#8211; what are the components of that new job, the other changes? What feelings do you want to feel, what tangibles will be yours once the changes are made? The Law of Attraction matches your feelings, which cause your vibrations &#8211; so make sure you are being in an appreciative, positive and loving mode and it has to pay off for you!</p>
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		<title>Law of Attraction explained again!</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[One of my favorite teachers of the Law of Attraction is the group entity known as Abraham, channeled by Esther Hicks. Here&#8217;s a quote from one of their lectures that is SO true, I just had to repeat it for &#8230; <a href="http://debrajcrossmanpsychicmedium.com/blog/2011/11/07/law-of-attraction-explained-again/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One of my favorite teachers of the <strong>Law of Attraction</strong> is the group entity known as Abraham, channeled by Esther Hicks. Here&#8217;s a quote from one of their lectures that is SO true, I just had to repeat it for you!</p>
<p><strong>Your power of Influence</strong></p>
<p>&#8220;Let&#8217;s say you come together with someone and you&#8217;re feeling high and happy, and they just got bad news and are feeling not. When you come together with that person, what happens is each of you, without even knowing you are doing it, are trying to get the other to come where you are.  You&#8217;re trying to get them up, they are trying to get you down, because you have this natural desire to communicate. </p>
<p>But there&#8217;s also this other thing that happens, when you&#8217;re aware of them, there&#8217;s a natural blending or balancing of the energy, so much so that when you have a room full of people that come together, the room has a personality &#8211; which is the combination of that which you all are.  And one new person could walk into the room, who has an extremely high or extremely low vibration and the personality of the room would change.  Its just a natural process.</p>
<p><strong>When you&#8217;ve decided to tune your frequency to that of your source, and make the frequency of others in the room irrelevant to you, now you&#8217;ve got control of your point of attraction.</strong></p>
<p><strong>ITS ABOUT EXERCISING YOUR OWN POWER OF INFLUENCE.<br />
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It&#8217;s about being determined not to be influenced by what&#8217;s going on around you, so you practice to be here (vibrationally) , and they are there (vibrationally), what happens is they must join you, or they must go away. Because you&#8217;ve practiced not going where they are&#8221;.</p>
<p>Abraham, Asheville NC, 9-27-2011 &#8211; cd 2 track 3</p>
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		<title>Sometimes We Need to Act Quickly&#8230;</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[I received this lovely testimonial recently, and thought I&#8217;d share it with you to illustrate what can happen sometimes in a reading, and how it can affect our lives&#8230;many thanks for the permission to share the story. Hi Debbie, Its &#8230; <a href="http://debrajcrossmanpsychicmedium.com/blog/2011/10/04/sometimes-we-need-to-act-quickly/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>I received this lovely testimonial recently, and thought I&#8217;d share it with you to illustrate what can happen sometimes in a reading, and how it can affect our lives&#8230;many thanks for the permission to share the story.</em></p>
<blockquote><p>Hi Debbie,</p>
<p>Its been a few years since I booked an appointment, but in 2007, you did a reading for me and warned me about my father not living very much longer. You said he came from a long line of people who lived into their 80&#8242;s and 90&#8242;s, but it wasn&#8217;t going to be that way with him.  You advised me to connect with him, and to do it soon.  That night I told my wife (now divorced) and son what you said, and we reconnected with my dad.  He died 9 months later, of leukemia.  Your advice to me was to reconnect ahead of his sickness so things would be established when he did get sick. Thankfully, that happened thanks to you.</p>
<p>Anyway, that was a very very belated thank you.  And you are really the only psychic I trust. You are an amazing person with obvious talent.  Thank you for using it to help others &#8211; you are one of those who gives back to society and I appreciate what you did for me. </p></blockquote>
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		<title>Reading a Deceased Friend of the Gang!</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Recently, a group of friends arranged an &#8220;Evening With the Other Side&#8221; party, which is like a seance, in order to tune into a mutual and beloved friend that had passed over. It was important to me that they would &#8230; <a href="http://debrajcrossmanpsychicmedium.com/blog/2011/10/01/reading-a-deceased-friend-of-the-gang/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em>Recently, a group of friends arranged an <strong>&#8220;Evening With the Other Side&#8221;</strong> party, which is like a seance, in order to tune into a mutual and beloved friend that had passed over. It was important to me that they would understand how it might work, and this is what I told them:</em></p>
<p>&#8220;One thing I need to make clear for you &#8211; if all of you are wanting to tune into the same deceased friend, the messages are going to be very similar, if not identical. In other words, he or she will not have long, intimate, distinctly personal words for each of you. Because of the group&#8217;s interest in one person, which is rather unusual (sometimes I&#8217;ll have many family members asking about all of their family&#8217;s loved ones, but that&#8217;s another dynamic altogether&#8230;) it will instead be that first, I will ask for the friend&#8217;s first name and read that person through my hostess (let&#8217;s say Mary). I will confirm that I am tuning into the person for you by describing their personality and characteristics, and whatever else I pick up, to let you know that I&#8217;m focused on the right Spirit, since I have never met them and have no knowledge of them. Then, I would see if you have any questions for that person, or if I&#8217;m picking up anything else for you from them, or from other deceased loved ones in your energy field. Then, I&#8217;ll move on to the next guest. But as you an see, much of what I&#8217;ll be getting from your departed friend will come out in the first reading, so the other guests are unlikely to hear something new and different when I get to their turn &#8211; it will be likely that I&#8217;ll pick up OTHER things for them, but not necessarily from or about the friend.</p>
<p>I wanted to make sure you knew this, so that people weren&#8217;t disappointed or dismayed by the way it will take place. However, everyone can ask a question directly to the friend (or any deceased loved one) and we can see what that brings out. <strong>Almost always, direct questions will get more for us, as the Spirits are sending me impressions and pictures which I am then interpreting in my human mind, which can be a little vague or ambiguous. With a direct question, I can interpret the answer more clearly, since we know what we&#8217;re talking about! (Mediumship is a very inexact science! LOL!).</strong>&#8221;</p>
<p>It&#8217;s always so comforting, and for some people, astounding, that we can contact our deceased loved ones. At a recent public group demonstration, an older gentleman was there with his wife and clearly, he had been &#8220;dragged&#8221; to the event! He sat with his arms and legs folded across his body, giving the distinct body language of someone unwilling and unlikely to be easily impressed by my work. Needless to say, when I brought him the information and message from his deceased brother, this man was shocked. He made a special point to thank me afterwards and told me I&#8217;d been exactly right on the mark about his brother, and that he never would have believed in this type of thing otherwise!</p>
<p>I enjoy giving that kind of confirmation to people that there is life after death, and communication with the dead. Our loved ones in Spirit enjoy it, too!</p>
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		<title>Can You Heal Yourself with Hypnosis?</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Because of a very extraordinary outcome for one of my clients, I&#8217;d like to tell you about her recent experience. It&#8217;s kind of a long story, but I think you&#8217;ll agree it&#8217;s amazing! As she prefers to remain anonymous, I&#8217;ll &#8230; <a href="http://debrajcrossmanpsychicmedium.com/blog/2011/09/28/can-you-heal-yourself-with-hypnosis/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Because of a very extraordinary outcome for one of my clients, I&#8217;d like to tell you about her recent experience. It&#8217;s kind of a long story, but I think you&#8217;ll agree it&#8217;s amazing!</p>
<p>As she prefers to remain anonymous, I&#8217;ll call her Ms. X. We&#8217;ve known each other for many years, and she has had numerous readings and hypnosis sessions with me. When I introduced my new <strong>&#8220;Return to the Source&#8221;</strong> program, she was eager to take this next step in her efforts to overcome the issues and difficulties that have been lifelong problems. Even though we both thought we knew all the details of this life and many past lifetimes, the <strong>Soul Reading</strong> and subsequent intense hypnosis session revealed information and karma that stunned us. It was extremely emotional and yet, she pressed on and worked through everything that came up, giving herself the opportunity to release, forgive, and have a fresh start in her life. Finally, she fully understood the &#8220;whys&#8221; of all the things that had happened during this lifetime.</p>
<p>What came next was even more stunning: within a few weeks, a health problem she was experiencing just wouldn&#8217;t clear up, and when she went to her doctor last Wednesday, was given the devastating news that it was virtually certain that she had bladder cancer! She had every indicator and symptom, and as a cancer survivor, and with a family member who had had bladder cancer, it seemed only too possible that this preliminary diagnosis was true. It could not be confirmed for a week, and as you can imagine, the stress and tension of not knowing was horrendous.</p>
<p>I immediately suggested that she have another hypnosis session, that very day. It&#8217;s my experience and firm belief that EVERY illness has an emotional basis, and is our body trying to release or deal with feelings and issues that we are not coping with consciously. I wanted to get to her subconscious mind as quickly as possible to find out what was the purpose of this &#8220;message&#8221; from her emotions, and what we could do to begin the healing process right away. Knowing what we had learned in her previous session, and certain events in her life, I had an inkling about the direction to take (and of course, being psychic helped too!). However, our schedules, and geographical distance, made it impossible to get together in person, so for the first time, we had a hypnosis session over the phone.</p>
<p>Fortunately, Ms. X is an excellent hypnotic subject. In spite of her fatigue, pain, and fear of the answers, she gamely opened herself up and cooperated with the process, relaxing into a deep hypnotic state. What we learned was incredibly revealing, and clearly her emotions had already been working on her for some time, resulting in the potential to create a life-threatening illness. However, she made the decisions necessary during this session to release and forgive the last remaining triggers  (primarily anger) and was able to allow her body to commence the healing process. Using imagery, visualization, and positive affirmations, she programmed her mind to see and feel the outcome she desired &#8211; complete good health. </p>
<p>At the end of the session, she promptly fell into a deep sleep, but found herself releasing physically (multiple trips to the bathroom!) for the next 24 hours. I had already read her psychically, and felt certain that she did NOT have cancer, but there was something else there that would have to be removed. She went for tests on Friday to see what might be happening with her kidneys, and indeed, was found to have not only a kidney stone but a cyst on her kidney! However, the poor woman was in the midst of the testing, after fasting and worrying, only to have the power fail in the building, and was told she&#8217;d have to start all over again on Monday! It was my psychic opinion that this happened because her body needed more time to heal itself, before anyone planted the seed in her mind that would label her as having cancer. (I&#8217;m not saying she caused the power to fail, but she would have been guided to be there at just that moment to not be able to finish the test!)</p>
<p>As you may have guessed, after intensive, painful tests on Monday &#8211; she was found to be CANCER FREE! She had indeed reversed and healed the apparent reality that her body was starting to create, based on her emotions. While she will have to undergo the pain of passing a kidney stone, she and I are mightily impressed with her new manifestation!</p>
<p>We also recognize that had she not undergone the initial Return to the Source reading and hypnosis, it is likely that the need for something so self-punishing, victimizing and potentially deadly would have continued to progress in her life. Once something is firmly embedded in the physical realm, it&#8217;s still possible to heal it, just more difficult as it has already taken on physical form. However, never once did she succumb to any self-pity, or surrender to the &#8220;inevitable&#8221;, or buy into the notion that this was going to be her fate. By jumping on the offensive so quickly and taking matters in hand, she was able to change her own future, which is something we all have the ability and opportunity to do, at any time and in any circumstance. My deepest respect and congratulations go out to her!</p>
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